Maybe not in the pecking order but I strongly believe (taking a cue from stories of several successful and happy married women), these points are really note-worthy.
1. Your Dreams and Goals
She will ask you severally for your dreams and goals: short term or long term before she begins to ask for other infinitesimal things. Your goal in life means more to her. Yes!
2. Your Role In Her Life And Career
Speaking of her asking you for your dreams and passions, she actually wants to know your role in her life. She wants to be sure you will be there for her as she will do vice versa.
3. Your Spiritual Leadership Or Control.
Trust me, if she loves you, she would ask from flats to grants, cutting across your religion to your personal belief of “God”. Ladies needs security – spiritual security inclusive.
4. Your Mental State
If she loves him, she would not turn a blind eye to his mental capacity. She will try to influence him for good. Love seeks change.
5. Your Past life
Love isn’t stupidity. She loves you and so seeks to hear of your exes and past relationships. If she doesn’t ask or bother to, hmm… Please watchout!
6. Your Financial worth and Target
Yes, this is crucial too. You both love each other and so it’s her obligation to ask how much you take home monthly. That would help her plan and make her choices, wisely. Money is vital too. Very vital, actually!
7. Your Family
This is very pivotal. She would want to see your family: siblings or even parents. If she has no interest in seeing them but just you alone, don’t feel special, it’s not a good sign. Selah.
The point of this thread is, if that Lady really loves you, these Seven Points are the first she’ll consider before thinking of other ‘trivial’ issues.